Matthew Chapter18

When you think about greatness, what comes to mind? Success? Influence? Recognition? In Matthew 18, Jesus flips our ideas of greatness upside down. His disciples ask, “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” (v. 1). Jesus doesn’t give them a lecture or list of achievements. Instead, He brings a little child into their midst and says, “Unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever takes the lowly position of this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven” (vv. 3-4).

That’s not what the disciples expected to hear, and it might challenge us too. In a world that values power and accomplishment, Jesus tells us that greatness in His kingdom is about humility, dependence, and trust—qualities often overlooked. Children don’t come with resumes or prideful ambitions. They come with openness and faith. Jesus invites us to approach God the same way, letting go of self-sufficiency and embracing a childlike heart.

Later in the chapter, Jesus continues this theme by teaching about forgiveness. Peter asks, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” (v. 21). Peter probably thought he was being generous, but Jesus replies, “Not seven times, but seventy times seven” (v. 22). Then He tells a parable about a servant forgiven a massive debt who refuses to forgive a much smaller debt owed to him.

How much have we been forgiven? We’ve been forgiven more than we can imagine. God’s mercy toward us is immeasurable, and He calls us to reflect that mercy in our relationships. Forgiveness is hard, especially when we feel wronged, but Jesus shows us it’s not optional. It’s part of living out the humility and grace of His kingdom.

Matthew 18 reminds us that following Jesus means rethinking what matters most. It’s not about climbing the ladder of success, proving ourselves, or holding grudges. It’s about humbling ourselves, trusting God, and loving others with the same grace we’ve received.

What does humility look like in your life right now? Are there areas where pride is holding you back from childlike faith?
Is there someone you need to forgive? How can reflecting on God’s forgiveness toward you help you take that step?
How can you embrace the values of God’s kingdom in a culture that often celebrates the opposite?

Lord, thank You for showing me what true greatness looks like. Help me to let go of pride and embrace humility. Teach me to trust You like a child and to reflect Your grace by forgiving others as You have forgiven me. Transform my heart to live in a way that honors Your kingdom. Amen.

What stood out to you in Matthew 18? How has God challenged you to grow in humility or forgiveness? Share your thoughts below—I’d love to hear and encourage one another!